Some people have a misconception of BDSM anklet jewelry. Maybe it is a misconception of the entire BDSM lifestyle. Either way, I want to dispel some of the myths and wrong ideas floating around the internet and the real, everyday world.
This is not a pain only lifestyle. Submissive’s are rather helpless in their desires and other like the idea of controlling someone else during the play time. Knowingly letting go of the control, which is a hot button for the “subbies” and a way to have the “Dom’s” get off too? And some nipple jewelry or anklet jewelry shows others that you are a willing participant.
Who does not want to be seduced not only physically but also mentally? I have had some my most erotic times with people that were not “Brangelina” types but ordinary or even less-than ordinary looking. These men and women rocked me mentally first. And the BDSM anklet helped them to know I was available. Society tells us we cannot be like this.
Let’s punch some holes in some of these “Societal Norm.”
It’s all about Pain, inflecting or receiving.
It really isn’t. Think about it. Those in the lifestyle that I know or have known said the pain, and usually just slight pain, is secondary. The big thing is the mental control. Now I am not a doctor so what I say here is must opinion and conjecture for talking to people. But the pain is only needed really to get the “juices flowing” more once the mental aspect is unleashed.
Remember being blindfolded as a kid when you played “Pin the tail on the donkey”? (Am I showing my age?) Your other senses were heighted. You heard better when the other kids shouted “You are cold” or “More to the left.”
Ever play “Marco, Polo” in the pool? Same thing happens here. You hear better and even smell better if someone is wearing perfume or scented sunscreen. And the BDSM ankle jewelry that is worn is a giveaway that you want that kind of fun.
People with low self-esteem are into the BDSM lifestyle.
No again. You can find people with low self-esteem anywhere. Those that are submissive are really very strong and secure in both themselves and their partners. No one would willing give up that kind of control, especially if we are tied to our bedframe at home, and not know that full trust is given to the dominate in the scenario. The dominate person is given a much cherished thing from the submissive, that being the gift of total confidence and trust.
And really, after a hard day at work, managing projects, staff, customers, the family, the kids, maybe even the neighbors, who would not like to sit back and let someone else steer the bus for a while?
These are just a few of items that are misconceptions in the BDSM lifestyle. Is this lifestyle for you? Try it sometimes. And when you like it, and you will, take a look at MyWickedJewelry.com for a large selections of BDSM jewelry like anklets, non piercing nipple jewelry and piercing navel jewelry. The BDSM anklets are so sexy and fun with a short skirt and high heels. Or maybe just that high heels and some handcuffs!
Enjoy your life both outside and sexually. After all, it is YOUR life.
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